"If you're playing a poker game and you look around the table and and can't tell who the sucker is, it's you"
About this Quote
As an actor and lifelong public figure, Newman understood tables where everyone is smiling while calculating. Poker is the perfect metaphor because it rewards social reading as much as math. The quote’s intent is pragmatic: sharpen your perception or pay tuition. But the subtext is harsher: most people want to believe they’re savvy, and that self-image is exactly what predators exploit. It’s less “be paranoid” than “stop assuming the room is neutral.”
There’s also a cultural moment embedded in it. In late-20th-century America, poker becomes shorthand for masculine competence, risk, and cool-headedness; Newman’s own screen persona often traded on that calm, observant confidence. So the line works as a piece of vernacular mentorship, not a lecture: if you’re losing, don’t blame luck first. Ask whether you even understand the rules of the social system you stepped into.
The sting is motivational. You can fix bad cards; you can’t fix blindness.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Newman, Paul. (2026, January 15). If you're playing a poker game and you look around the table and and can't tell who the sucker is, it's you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-playing-a-poker-game-and-you-look-around-89069/
Chicago Style
Newman, Paul. "If you're playing a poker game and you look around the table and and can't tell who the sucker is, it's you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-playing-a-poker-game-and-you-look-around-89069/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you're playing a poker game and you look around the table and and can't tell who the sucker is, it's you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youre-playing-a-poker-game-and-you-look-around-89069/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.


