"If you've experienced having control, you don't want to be moved to a subordinate position, if you have your druthers"
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The phrasing matters. “Moved” suggests something done to you, not a voluntary adjustment. That passive shove captures how demotions often feel in pro sports: packaged as strategy, experienced as erasure. And “subordinate position” is deliberately formal, almost corporate. Erving is talking about basketball, but he’s also talking about the workplace reality athletes live inside: contracts, front offices, coaches, brand obligations. Control is never just about touches and minutes; it’s about voice.
Then he lands on “if you have your druthers,” a folksy tag that softens the steel point without weakening it. It signals pragmatism: he knows people don’t always get to choose, but he’s insisting that desire still counts. The subtext is a warning to organizations and to younger players: once someone has been empowered, you can’t expect them to accept less without friction. Status isn’t only earned; it’s felt in the body, and losing it rarely looks graceful, even when it’s rational.
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| Topic | Leadership |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Erving, Julius. (2026, January 16). If you've experienced having control, you don't want to be moved to a subordinate position, if you have your druthers. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youve-experienced-having-control-you-dont-want-101759/
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Erving, Julius. "If you've experienced having control, you don't want to be moved to a subordinate position, if you have your druthers." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youve-experienced-having-control-you-dont-want-101759/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you've experienced having control, you don't want to be moved to a subordinate position, if you have your druthers." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youve-experienced-having-control-you-dont-want-101759/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.




