"If you've lost focus, just sit down and be still. Take the idea and rock it to and fro. Keep some of it and throw some away, and it will renew itself. You need do no more"
About this Quote
The most revealing move is the domestic, almost lullaby metaphor: "rock it to and fro". An idea becomes something alive enough to soothe, not a task to be wrestled into submission. Rocking implies patience, repetition, and a body-based kind of knowing; it suggests creativity is less a lightning strike than a relationship. The subtext is permission: you are allowed to be temporarily unfocused because unfocus can be part of the process, not evidence that you are broken.
"Keep some of it and throw some away" cuts against perfectionism. Estes normalizes pruning as a form of care, not capitulation. Creation here is editing, composting, letting what doesnt belong fall off so what remains can "renew itself". That renewal is framed as self-generating; your job is to provide conditions, not control outcomes.
Context matters: Estes, known for fusing folklore, psychology, and poetic counsel, writes in a register that sounds like elder wisdom, not optimization. "You need do no more" lands as both comfort and critique: the culture that demands constant output is the very thing scattering your focus in the first place.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Estes, Clarissa Pinkola. (2026, January 16). If you've lost focus, just sit down and be still. Take the idea and rock it to and fro. Keep some of it and throw some away, and it will renew itself. You need do no more. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youve-lost-focus-just-sit-down-and-be-still-114892/
Chicago Style
Estes, Clarissa Pinkola. "If you've lost focus, just sit down and be still. Take the idea and rock it to and fro. Keep some of it and throw some away, and it will renew itself. You need do no more." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youve-lost-focus-just-sit-down-and-be-still-114892/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you've lost focus, just sit down and be still. Take the idea and rock it to and fro. Keep some of it and throw some away, and it will renew itself. You need do no more." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-youve-lost-focus-just-sit-down-and-be-still-114892/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







