"I'll go through life either first class or third, but never in second"
About this Quote
The wit works because it flips what society teaches you to fear. Most people dread “third” as failure; Coward reframes it as freedom. If you’re broke, at least you’re not pretending. If you’re rich, be unapologetically rich. The real shame, in his view, is the cautious respectability that dilutes both pleasure and honesty.
Context matters: Coward built a brand in interwar and postwar Britain on elegance, speed, and cultivated nonchalance - a performer-playwright navigating class codes with both insider fluency and outsider nerve. As a gay man in a society that demanded discretion, he understood the costs of living “second”: the careful self-editing, the compromises made to stay acceptable. The line is a manifesto for style as strategy. Don’t be half-seen. Don’t be half-alive. If life is going to judge you anyway, give it something decisive to judge.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
|---|---|
| Source | Attributed to Noel Coward; listed on the Noel Coward page on Wikiquote. Original primary source not specified on that page. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coward, Noel. (2026, January 15). I'll go through life either first class or third, but never in second. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ill-go-through-life-either-first-class-or-third-168195/
Chicago Style
Coward, Noel. "I'll go through life either first class or third, but never in second." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ill-go-through-life-either-first-class-or-third-168195/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'll go through life either first class or third, but never in second." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ill-go-through-life-either-first-class-or-third-168195/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








