"I'm a modern woman in the sense of I take care of myself, I'm fiercely independent, and I'm really ambitious. Yet I have these old-school thoughts in my mind"
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Then she swerves: "Yet I have these old-school thoughts in my mind". That "yet" is the whole drama. She isn’t confessing hypocrisy so much as refusing the idea that a "modern woman" is a finished product. The subtext is that empowerment has become its own performance category, and Mendes is admitting the backstage is messier than the stage. "Old-school thoughts" stays strategically vague: it could be about marriage, caretaking, gender roles, even the desire to be provided for. By not specifying, she turns a personal tension into a Rorschach test for the audience, inviting recognition without handing critics a clean target.
The line also works as a pressure-release valve for a particular moment in pop culture: a post-lean-in era where ambition is celebrated, but women are still policed for wanting romance, domesticity, or softness. Mendes signals she can speak the language of modernity while refusing to disown the parts of herself that don’t fit the script. It’s not an apology; it’s an argument that identity isn’t a campaign slogan, and liberation doesn’t require emotional uniformity.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mendes, Eva. (2026, January 17). I'm a modern woman in the sense of I take care of myself, I'm fiercely independent, and I'm really ambitious. Yet I have these old-school thoughts in my mind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-modern-woman-in-the-sense-of-i-take-care-of-52365/
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Mendes, Eva. "I'm a modern woman in the sense of I take care of myself, I'm fiercely independent, and I'm really ambitious. Yet I have these old-school thoughts in my mind." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-modern-woman-in-the-sense-of-i-take-care-of-52365/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm a modern woman in the sense of I take care of myself, I'm fiercely independent, and I'm really ambitious. Yet I have these old-school thoughts in my mind." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-modern-woman-in-the-sense-of-i-take-care-of-52365/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.




