"I'm a nice, happily married wife and mom and I live in Connecticut"
About this Quote
Its power is in the contrast between the words and the speaker. Baranski’s public persona (and her most iconic roles) traffic in intelligence as dominance: characters who win with language, status, and nerve. So when she reaches for the blandest possible American respectability - wife, mom, Connecticut - she’s not just sketching domesticity, she’s invoking a whole cultural shorthand: safe suburbia, tasteful restraint, non-threatening femininity. It’s a verbal cardigan.
The subtext: don’t worry, I’m not one of Those Women. Or, more sharply, look how quickly a woman can be expected to translate herself into palatable terms. The rhythm matters too: "nice" first, then marital happiness, then motherhood, then geography - a checklist of socially approved credentials, stacked like armor. Connecticut is the punchline, not because it’s funny on its own, but because it signals a class-coded kind of normal, the upscale version of disappearing into the crowd.
Baranski sells it because she knows exactly how "nice" can be a performance, and how often women are asked to perform it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Baranski, Christine. (2026, January 14). I'm a nice, happily married wife and mom and I live in Connecticut. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-nice-happily-married-wife-and-mom-and-i-live-66324/
Chicago Style
Baranski, Christine. "I'm a nice, happily married wife and mom and I live in Connecticut." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-nice-happily-married-wife-and-mom-and-i-live-66324/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm a nice, happily married wife and mom and I live in Connecticut." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-nice-happily-married-wife-and-mom-and-i-live-66324/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





