"I'm a pain in the ass to all of the costume designers with whom I work because I have very strong feelings about the subject"
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The intent is practical and reputational. Streep has built a career on disappearing into roles, and costume is a key mechanism for that disappearance. “Very strong feelings” reads like polite industry code for a specific, hard-won expertise: she knows how a hemline dictates posture, how a corset changes breath, how the wrong shoe breaks a character. Her toughness isn’t vanity; it’s craft discipline.
The subtext also speaks to power in a collaborative art form. Actors are the public face, costume designers the invisible authors of silhouette and status. By acknowledging friction, Streep signals respect for the department while still insisting on a say. That push-pull is the real context of film and theater: credit is unequal, time is scarce, and the product has to look effortless. She’s naming the labor behind “natural” performance and, slyly, legitimizing the right of an actor - especially a woman in an appearance-obsessed industry - to care about wardrobe for reasons deeper than prettiness.
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Streep, Meryl. (2026, January 17). I'm a pain in the ass to all of the costume designers with whom I work because I have very strong feelings about the subject. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-pain-in-the-ass-to-all-of-the-costume-28679/
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Streep, Meryl. "I'm a pain in the ass to all of the costume designers with whom I work because I have very strong feelings about the subject." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-pain-in-the-ass-to-all-of-the-costume-28679/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm a pain in the ass to all of the costume designers with whom I work because I have very strong feelings about the subject." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-pain-in-the-ass-to-all-of-the-costume-28679/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





