"I'm a Southerner - I never take satisfaction in touching a nerve. I guess if I'm forced to find a good side, I'm glad that people are talking about an issue that hasn't really been discussed all that much. I'm glad that people are talking about it from the black perspective and the white perspective"
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The pivot - "if I'm forced to find a good side" - reveals the real tension: the author positioning herself as reluctantly embroiled in controversy, not responsible for it. That's a classic move when a cultural product gets challenged from below: shift from accountability to "conversation". "I'm glad that people are talking" turns backlash into proof of value, converting dissent into publicity and pain into discourse.
Context matters. Stockett, a white novelist whose best-known work, The Help, was widely celebrated in mainstream culture while also criticized for centering white redemption and trafficking in a comforting, packaged version of Black experience. Her emphasis on "black perspective and the white perspective" aims for balance, but it also flattens asymmetry. Race in the Jim Crow South isn't a debate club topic with two equal sides; it's an unequal system with winners and losers.
The subtext: please read the book as bridge-building, not appropriation; as good-faith storytelling, not a power grab. It's an appeal to liberal civility - and a reminder that in American culture, being "talked about" often counts as vindication, even when the talking is an indictment.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stockett, Kathryn. (2026, January 16). I'm a Southerner - I never take satisfaction in touching a nerve. I guess if I'm forced to find a good side, I'm glad that people are talking about an issue that hasn't really been discussed all that much. I'm glad that people are talking about it from the black perspective and the white perspective. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-southerner-i-never-take-satisfaction-in-86907/
Chicago Style
Stockett, Kathryn. "I'm a Southerner - I never take satisfaction in touching a nerve. I guess if I'm forced to find a good side, I'm glad that people are talking about an issue that hasn't really been discussed all that much. I'm glad that people are talking about it from the black perspective and the white perspective." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-southerner-i-never-take-satisfaction-in-86907/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm a Southerner - I never take satisfaction in touching a nerve. I guess if I'm forced to find a good side, I'm glad that people are talking about an issue that hasn't really been discussed all that much. I'm glad that people are talking about it from the black perspective and the white perspective." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-southerner-i-never-take-satisfaction-in-86907/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.



