"I'm a tomboy now. I always wanted to fit in with my brother's group, so I climbed trees and played with lead soldiers. But I'm a woman's woman. I never understood women who don't have woman friends"
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Then comes the quiet cultural clapback: “But I’m a woman’s woman.” It’s a reclaiming that refuses the tired trope that strength equals distance from femininity. In Hollywood - where women are routinely encouraged to compete for the single “slot” of credibility, desirability, seriousness - identifying as someone who needs and values female friendship reads as both personal truth and political posture. She’s demoting the “cool girl” myth without naming it.
The final line sharpens into social critique: she “never understood” women without women friends. That’s not moralizing so much as diagnosing. Isolation, she implies, isn’t sophistication; it’s often a learned defense, a side effect of environments that reward women for being the exception. Watts is signaling a matured identity: not “I can hang with the guys,” but “I’m not giving up solidarity to prove I can.”
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Watts, Naomi. (2026, January 17). I'm a tomboy now. I always wanted to fit in with my brother's group, so I climbed trees and played with lead soldiers. But I'm a woman's woman. I never understood women who don't have woman friends. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-tomboy-now-i-always-wanted-to-fit-in-with-my-78502/
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Watts, Naomi. "I'm a tomboy now. I always wanted to fit in with my brother's group, so I climbed trees and played with lead soldiers. But I'm a woman's woman. I never understood women who don't have woman friends." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-tomboy-now-i-always-wanted-to-fit-in-with-my-78502/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm a tomboy now. I always wanted to fit in with my brother's group, so I climbed trees and played with lead soldiers. But I'm a woman's woman. I never understood women who don't have woman friends." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-a-tomboy-now-i-always-wanted-to-fit-in-with-my-78502/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.








