"I'm afraid I'm still trying to find that balance. Especially now that everyone wants a piece of me. I find that I have to become more and more reclusive, and pick and choose when I am public and when I am private"
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The intent here is less confession than boundary-setting. "Still trying to find that balance" is disarmingly modest, but it also refuses the tidy narrative of the fully formed public intellectual who has mastered celebrity. Cisneros admits the problem persists because the conditions keep changing: "especially now" signals a particular moment of intensified attention, the kind that can follow canonization, awards, or becoming a staple in classrooms. Her work's intimacy becomes a trap; the more personal the writing feels, the more some readers feel entitled to the person.
The subtext is strategic: reclusiveness isn't antisocial; it's occupational hygiene. "Pick and choose when I am public and when I am private" reframes privacy as an active practice, not a default setting. For a writer, the private self is the source material and the laboratory. Guarding it isn't aloofness. It's how the work stays hers.
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| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cisneros, Sandra. (2026, January 17). I'm afraid I'm still trying to find that balance. Especially now that everyone wants a piece of me. I find that I have to become more and more reclusive, and pick and choose when I am public and when I am private. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-afraid-im-still-trying-to-find-that-balance-72313/
Chicago Style
Cisneros, Sandra. "I'm afraid I'm still trying to find that balance. Especially now that everyone wants a piece of me. I find that I have to become more and more reclusive, and pick and choose when I am public and when I am private." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-afraid-im-still-trying-to-find-that-balance-72313/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm afraid I'm still trying to find that balance. Especially now that everyone wants a piece of me. I find that I have to become more and more reclusive, and pick and choose when I am public and when I am private." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-afraid-im-still-trying-to-find-that-balance-72313/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.





