"I'm against having emotions, not against using them"
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Harvey Specter’s line is a slick bit of self-mythology: a man selling the fantasy of emotional control without the mess of emotional vulnerability. “Against having emotions” is deliberately absolutist, the kind of bravado that makes him sound bulletproof. But the second clause flips it into strategy. He’s not a robot; he’s a negotiator. Emotions aren’t forbidden, they’re tools. You don’t feel them, you deploy them.
The subtext is the show’s core masculinity pitch: softness is a liability, but emotional intelligence is power if it stays on a leash. Specter doesn’t deny that emotions exist; he denies their right to run the room. It’s a posture that plays especially well in a corporate-war setting where every interaction is framed as leverage. Anger becomes intimidation, charm becomes bait, empathy becomes a way to predict the other side’s weak points. “Using” emotions implies a kind of tactical fluency, a person who can simulate warmth or outrage on command, then shut it off before it costs him.
Contextually, it’s also a confession disguised as a flex. People who are truly indifferent don’t need to announce their opposition. The line hints at a backstory of emotion as danger: the grief, fear, or attachment he learned to treat like an occupational hazard. That’s why it lands. It’s not just tough talk; it’s the sound of someone trying to stay functional in a world where feeling too much might mean losing everything.
The subtext is the show’s core masculinity pitch: softness is a liability, but emotional intelligence is power if it stays on a leash. Specter doesn’t deny that emotions exist; he denies their right to run the room. It’s a posture that plays especially well in a corporate-war setting where every interaction is framed as leverage. Anger becomes intimidation, charm becomes bait, empathy becomes a way to predict the other side’s weak points. “Using” emotions implies a kind of tactical fluency, a person who can simulate warmth or outrage on command, then shut it off before it costs him.
Contextually, it’s also a confession disguised as a flex. People who are truly indifferent don’t need to announce their opposition. The line hints at a backstory of emotion as danger: the grief, fear, or attachment he learned to treat like an occupational hazard. That’s why it lands. It’s not just tough talk; it’s the sound of someone trying to stay functional in a world where feeling too much might mean losing everything.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Discipline |
|---|---|
| Source | Unverified source: Suits: "Undefeated" (Season 1, Episode 9) (Harvey Specter, 2011)
Evidence: Primary origin is spoken dialogue in the TV series Suits. In S01E09 "Undefeated," Mike says, "I thought you were against emotions." Harvey replies, "I'm against having emotions. I'm not against using them." This matches the commonly circulated quote (often with the repeated 'not against' phrasing... Other candidates (2) Graphic Law and Drawn Justice (Giuseppe Martinico, Gianpaolo Maria R..., 2025) compilation95.0% ... Harvey Specter , reveal not only the appeal of the protagonist's individual personality but , more importantly ..... Mystery Science Theater 3000 (Harvey Specter) compilation37.5% o flirt with a girl and she walks away mcalister im not used to seeing them walk |
| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on September 27, 2025 |
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