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Faith & Spirit Quote by Lou Duva

"I'm always going back to one thing - my family... It's my family, my religion, my fighters. Put them in any order you want"

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Duva’s line reads like the distilled creed of a life spent in gyms where devotion is measured in hours, bruises, and loyalties that outlast paychecks. He starts with “one thing,” then immediately breaks it into three pillars: family, religion, fighters. That little pivot is the tell. He’s not offering a neat hierarchy; he’s admitting that for someone who’s lived boxing from the inside, the categories collapse into each other.

The phrase “I’m always going back” signals more than nostalgia. It’s a compulsion, a coping mechanism, a return to what stays stable when the sport doesn’t. Boxing is famously transactional and fickle; trainers and fighters split, managers poach, careers end overnight. By naming “my fighters” alongside family and faith, Duva elevates the gym relationship to something nearer kinship than employment. The possessive “my” can sound controlling, but in a coaching context it’s also protective: responsibility claimed, not just credit.

Then comes the shrewd kicker: “Put them in any order you want.” It’s a dodge and a flex at once. He refuses the moral trap of ranking God over blood over work, yet he also implies the order doesn’t matter because the commitment is equally total. Subtext: don’t ask me to separate the sacred from the personal from the professional; this is all the same code.

Contextually, it fits an old-school boxing ethic where the trainer becomes surrogate parent, confessor, and corner-man. Duva isn’t romanticizing the sport so much as admitting what it demands: belief, loyalty, and a family you build under fluorescent lights.

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Duva, Lou. (2026, January 16). I'm always going back to one thing - my family... It's my family, my religion, my fighters. Put them in any order you want. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-going-back-to-one-thing-my-family-its-87294/

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Duva, Lou. "I'm always going back to one thing - my family... It's my family, my religion, my fighters. Put them in any order you want." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-going-back-to-one-thing-my-family-its-87294/.

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"I'm always going back to one thing - my family... It's my family, my religion, my fighters. Put them in any order you want." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-going-back-to-one-thing-my-family-its-87294/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

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Lou Duva (born May 28, 1922) is a Coach from USA.

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