"I'm always happy when I'm left alone, but if somebody comes and is nice, then we talk"
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Then comes the hinge: “but if somebody comes and is nice.” The condition isn’t charisma or status; it’s gentleness. “Nice” reads almost suspiciously plain, which is why it lands. It suggests a man practiced in reading rooms quickly, someone who’s met too many people who arrive with an agenda - flattery, extraction, the need to be seen with you - and who has learned to prize the rare visitor who doesn’t invade. The subtext isn’t misanthropy; it’s boundary management. Talk is allowed, even welcomed, but only after trust is established in miniature.
As an actor, Schell spent a life being approached: by fans, journalists, directors, dinner-party strangers wanting a performance of intimacy. This line cuts through that noise with a simple ethic: conversation is not an obligation, it’s a mutual act. The payoff is its calm refusal to dramatize. No trauma narrative, no tortured-genius pose. Just a candid map of how connection can work for someone who genuinely likes being alone - and still isn’t closed off, only selective.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schell, Maximilian. (2026, January 16). I'm always happy when I'm left alone, but if somebody comes and is nice, then we talk. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-happy-when-im-left-alone-but-if-87642/
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Schell, Maximilian. "I'm always happy when I'm left alone, but if somebody comes and is nice, then we talk." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-happy-when-im-left-alone-but-if-87642/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm always happy when I'm left alone, but if somebody comes and is nice, then we talk." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-happy-when-im-left-alone-but-if-87642/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








