"I'm always on the phone because I'm usually not with the people I want to be with"
About this Quote
The line works because it sidesteps the glamorous version of celebrity access. For public figures, the phone is often read as a status symbol - contacts, deals, constant motion. Portman flips that. The subtext is that busyness can be a kind of exile: you can be surrounded by colleagues, cameras, and schedules and still be homesick for a smaller circle. “Always” and “usually” are soft words that quietly admit a pattern, not a one-off bad week. It’s resignation without melodrama.
There’s also a cultural tell here: we’ve normalized mediated relationships so thoroughly that “on the phone” can pass as social life. Portman’s candor punctures that normalization. She’s not romanticizing analog purity; she’s explaining a coping mechanism. The intent feels less like self-pity than self-reporting: if I’m constantly reachable, it’s because I’m too often unreachable in the ways that actually matter.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Portman, Natalie. (2026, January 15). I'm always on the phone because I'm usually not with the people I want to be with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-on-the-phone-because-im-usually-not-94029/
Chicago Style
Portman, Natalie. "I'm always on the phone because I'm usually not with the people I want to be with." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-on-the-phone-because-im-usually-not-94029/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm always on the phone because I'm usually not with the people I want to be with." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-on-the-phone-because-im-usually-not-94029/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.










