"I'm always rather nervous about how you talk about women who are active in politics, whether they want to be talked about as women or as politicians"
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The quote works because it identifies a double bind without pretending to solve it. If a woman politician is discussed “as a woman,” she risks being treated as a novelty, a symbol, or a moral exhibit. If she’s discussed strictly “as a politician,” the culture often reads that as denying her reality or demanding she perform a kind of masculine neutrality. Kennedy frames it as a question of preference - “whether they want to be talked about” - which quietly shifts responsibility onto the women themselves, as if the larger machinery of media and voter bias can be managed through the right self-branding.
Context matters: early 1960s America is on the verge of second-wave feminism, with politics still largely a closed shop. Kennedy’s administration would soon create the President’s Commission on the Status of Women, yet the era’s default posture remained paternalistic. The subtext is both empathetic and strategic: a recognition that rhetoric shapes legitimacy, and that legitimacy for women in politics was (and often still is) conditional.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kennedy, John F. (2026, January 17). I'm always rather nervous about how you talk about women who are active in politics, whether they want to be talked about as women or as politicians. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-rather-nervous-about-how-you-talk-about-25920/
Chicago Style
Kennedy, John F. "I'm always rather nervous about how you talk about women who are active in politics, whether they want to be talked about as women or as politicians." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-rather-nervous-about-how-you-talk-about-25920/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm always rather nervous about how you talk about women who are active in politics, whether they want to be talked about as women or as politicians." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-rather-nervous-about-how-you-talk-about-25920/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





