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Politics & Power Quote by John F. Kennedy

"I'm always rather nervous about how you talk about women who are active in politics, whether they want to be talked about as women or as politicians"

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Kennedy’s line lands with the careful precision of a man balancing on the thin wire of mid-century gender politics: supportive enough to sound modern, cautious enough to avoid spooking an electorate still trained to see public power as male by default. The key tell is the phrase “rather nervous.” It’s not just personal anxiety; it’s an admission that the language around women in politics is already booby-trapped, primed to reduce them to category before competence.

The quote works because it identifies a double bind without pretending to solve it. If a woman politician is discussed “as a woman,” she risks being treated as a novelty, a symbol, or a moral exhibit. If she’s discussed strictly “as a politician,” the culture often reads that as denying her reality or demanding she perform a kind of masculine neutrality. Kennedy frames it as a question of preference - “whether they want to be talked about” - which quietly shifts responsibility onto the women themselves, as if the larger machinery of media and voter bias can be managed through the right self-branding.

Context matters: early 1960s America is on the verge of second-wave feminism, with politics still largely a closed shop. Kennedy’s administration would soon create the President’s Commission on the Status of Women, yet the era’s default posture remained paternalistic. The subtext is both empathetic and strategic: a recognition that rhetoric shapes legitimacy, and that legitimacy for women in politics was (and often still is) conditional.

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Kennedy, John F. (2026, January 17). I'm always rather nervous about how you talk about women who are active in politics, whether they want to be talked about as women or as politicians. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-rather-nervous-about-how-you-talk-about-25920/

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Kennedy, John F. "I'm always rather nervous about how you talk about women who are active in politics, whether they want to be talked about as women or as politicians." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-rather-nervous-about-how-you-talk-about-25920/.

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"I'm always rather nervous about how you talk about women who are active in politics, whether they want to be talked about as women or as politicians." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-rather-nervous-about-how-you-talk-about-25920/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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John F. Kennedy (May 29, 1917 - November 22, 1963) was a President from USA.

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