"I'm always suspicious of really beautiful women telling us we shouldn't be worried about beauty"
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The intent is skeptical, almost prosecutorial. “Suspicious” frames the exchange as a conflict of interest, not a heartfelt pep talk. A “really beautiful” woman isn’t merely attractive; she’s someone whose appearance likely functions as currency in rooms where attention, hiring, credibility, and romantic choice get allocated. When she says “we shouldn’t be worried,” it can read less like liberation than like gatekeeping with a smile: don’t name the system that advantages me.
Subtextually, Estrich is also critiquing a certain strain of empowerment rhetoric that asks women to opt out of insecurity without dismantling the incentives that produce it. Beauty isn’t just personal taste; it’s infrastructure: media, work norms, dating markets, ageism. Her “we” matters: she’s implicating herself and her audience in a collective pressure, not blaming individual vanity.
Contextually, coming from a journalist of Estrich’s era - when second-wave feminism collided with television-ready politics and increasingly image-driven public life - the line reads as a reminder that representation can become a trap. The messenger matters. Advice about not worrying hits differently when delivered from the top of the hierarchy it denies.
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"I'm always suspicious of really beautiful women telling us we shouldn't be worried about beauty." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-suspicious-of-really-beautiful-women-159973/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











