"I'm always uneasy with messages. I think if there is a message, it's about taking control of your life. Not becoming a victim. Be true to yourself. In essence it's about love in the drug culture"
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Still, he can't resist sketching a message anyway, and the tension is the point. The phrase "taking control of your life" lands like self-help, but it's immediately sharpened by "Not becoming a victim". In the context of late-20th-century club culture - where drugs were both lubricant and liability, escape and entrapment - "victim" isn't just personal melodrama. It's about agency under pressure: peer scenes, tabloid panic, policing, addiction, and the way certain subcultures were pathologized while being simultaneously mined for style.
"Be true to yourself" reads softer, almost suspiciously clean, until he locates it "in the drug culture". That last clause complicates the whole moral frame. He's not condemning the scene; he's insisting on its humanity. Love here isn't Hallmark - it's the messy social bond that forms in nightlife: chosen family, intimacy in rooms built for anonymity, care offered in chemically altered states. Tennant's intent seems less to absolve drugs than to refuse the easy narrative that everyone in that world is either glamorous or ruined. It's a pop artist arguing for nuance, and doing it with the kind of understatement that keeps the music from turning into a lecture.
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Tennant, Neil. (2026, January 16). I'm always uneasy with messages. I think if there is a message, it's about taking control of your life. Not becoming a victim. Be true to yourself. In essence it's about love in the drug culture. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-uneasy-with-messages-i-think-if-there-115803/
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Tennant, Neil. "I'm always uneasy with messages. I think if there is a message, it's about taking control of your life. Not becoming a victim. Be true to yourself. In essence it's about love in the drug culture." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-uneasy-with-messages-i-think-if-there-115803/.
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"I'm always uneasy with messages. I think if there is a message, it's about taking control of your life. Not becoming a victim. Be true to yourself. In essence it's about love in the drug culture." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-always-uneasy-with-messages-i-think-if-there-115803/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









