"I'm an Air force Brat and I've lived all over the world and this country and there were people in my community who were gay - nurses, hairdressers, designers - people who just had a different way about themselves"
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The phrasing is doing strategic work. “There were people… who were gay” is almost deliberately plain, stripping the topic of scandal. Then comes the list: “nurses, hairdressers, designers.” It’s not a perfect roster; it leans on recognizable archetypes, the kinds of professions pop culture has long coded as gay-adjacent. But that’s part of the point: she’s naming the people society has always half-acknowledged, often through stereotype, while refusing the leap from “different” to “dangerous.” “People who just had a different way about themselves” is a soft, lived-in euphemism that mirrors how many communities historically talked around queerness: not quite “out,” not quite hidden, simply present.
Coming from an actress whose career broke barriers in a male-dominated, hypersexualized film era, the subtext is solidarity without sermonizing. She’s not arguing policy; she’s normalizing memory. The intent is to puncture panic with familiarity: you already know these people, you always have.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grier, Pam. (2026, January 16). I'm an Air force Brat and I've lived all over the world and this country and there were people in my community who were gay - nurses, hairdressers, designers - people who just had a different way about themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-an-air-force-brat-and-ive-lived-all-over-the-101497/
Chicago Style
Grier, Pam. "I'm an Air force Brat and I've lived all over the world and this country and there were people in my community who were gay - nurses, hairdressers, designers - people who just had a different way about themselves." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-an-air-force-brat-and-ive-lived-all-over-the-101497/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm an Air force Brat and I've lived all over the world and this country and there were people in my community who were gay - nurses, hairdressers, designers - people who just had a different way about themselves." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-an-air-force-brat-and-ive-lived-all-over-the-101497/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




