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Time & Perspective Quote by Jewel

"I'm becoming more and more myself with time. I guess that's what grace is. The refinement of your soul through time"

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A lot of celebrity “authenticity” talk is really a branding strategy; Jewel’s version sounds like the opposite: a slow surrender to whatever can’t be merchandised. “Becoming more and more myself” treats identity as a process, not a revelation. It’s a subtle rebuke to the pop-culture demand that you arrive fully formed, declare your “truth,” and then perform it on command. Her phrasing implies that the self isn’t found so much as distilled - less invention, more subtraction.

Then she makes a quiet pivot with teeth: “I guess that’s what grace is.” Grace here isn’t about being forgiven by an audience, a partner, or a god. It’s permission to be unfinished. The “I guess” matters; it keeps the idea from turning preachy, and it signals lived experience rather than a slogan. She’s not selling enlightenment, she’s describing a weather pattern she’s survived.

“The refinement of your soul through time” frames hardship as an artisan’s workshop: pressure, heat, repetition. Coming from a musician whose public story has included both spectacular success and very public vulnerability, refinement reads less like self-help polish and more like earned clarity. Time is doing the work - sanding down performance anxiety, people-pleasing, the need to be legible to strangers. The subtext is that grace isn’t a halo; it’s a long edit, and the final draft looks more like you, not less.

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Jewel. (2026, January 16). I'm becoming more and more myself with time. I guess that's what grace is. The refinement of your soul through time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-becoming-more-and-more-myself-with-time-i-86312/

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Jewel. "I'm becoming more and more myself with time. I guess that's what grace is. The refinement of your soul through time." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-becoming-more-and-more-myself-with-time-i-86312/.

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"I'm becoming more and more myself with time. I guess that's what grace is. The refinement of your soul through time." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-becoming-more-and-more-myself-with-time-i-86312/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Jewel (born May 23, 1974) is a Musician from USA.

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