"I'm carded for R-rated movies. And I get talked down to a lot. When I try to go rent a car or buy an airplane ticket or other stuff adults do, I get 'Okaaaaaay, honey.' I remember when I was 18, getting crayons in a restaurant"
About this Quote
The quote works as cultural shorthand for a very specific kind of public negotiation women do in everyday transactions. Renting a car and buying a plane ticket are bureaucratic rituals of competence. Bell shows how those rituals can get rerouted into a performance of caretaking, where the worker becomes the adult and the customer becomes the child. “Honey” is the giveaway. It’s not intimacy; it’s hierarchy dressed as warmth.
There’s also a celebrity subtext. Bell is famous, but not always “recognized,” which means she’s still subject to the same micro-dismissals as any young-looking woman in line. That tension makes the anecdote sharper: status can’t always buy you legitimacy when your face codes as “girl.” The crayons detail nails the absurdity. Restaurants hand out crayons to manage children’s boredom; giving them to an 18-year-old is a comic misread with real consequences. The laugh comes first, then the sting: adulthood, it turns out, is partly granted by strangers.
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| Topic | Youth |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bell, Kristen. (n.d.). I'm carded for R-rated movies. And I get talked down to a lot. When I try to go rent a car or buy an airplane ticket or other stuff adults do, I get 'Okaaaaaay, honey.' I remember when I was 18, getting crayons in a restaurant. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-carded-for-r-rated-movies-and-i-get-talked-161156/
Chicago Style
Bell, Kristen. "I'm carded for R-rated movies. And I get talked down to a lot. When I try to go rent a car or buy an airplane ticket or other stuff adults do, I get 'Okaaaaaay, honey.' I remember when I was 18, getting crayons in a restaurant." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-carded-for-r-rated-movies-and-i-get-talked-161156/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm carded for R-rated movies. And I get talked down to a lot. When I try to go rent a car or buy an airplane ticket or other stuff adults do, I get 'Okaaaaaay, honey.' I remember when I was 18, getting crayons in a restaurant." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-carded-for-r-rated-movies-and-i-get-talked-161156/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.







