"I'm competitive with myself, but not with other people. I set goals for myself. I don't really care about winning or losing as long as I do my best"
About this Quote
The intent is boundary-setting. “I’m competitive with myself” keeps the engine running; “but not with other people” refuses the corrosive loop of envy. It’s an attempt to relocate power from an external scoreboard to an internal one: effort, preparation, growth. The subtext acknowledges a hard truth about creative work: outcomes are often arbitrary, but process is yours. That’s why “goals” matter here. They’re not trophies; they’re guardrails, a way to keep craft central when the industry rewards branding and buzz.
There’s also a PR-smart humility to it - an anti-diva posture that plays well in celebrity culture. Yet the most interesting tension is the final clause: “I don’t really care about winning or losing as long as I do my best.” That’s both empowering and defensive. It protects the ego from rejection while still demanding standards. Not complacency, but controllable pride.
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Grabeel, Lucas. (2026, January 16). I'm competitive with myself, but not with other people. I set goals for myself. I don't really care about winning or losing as long as I do my best. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-competitive-with-myself-but-not-with-other-87347/
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Grabeel, Lucas. "I'm competitive with myself, but not with other people. I set goals for myself. I don't really care about winning or losing as long as I do my best." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-competitive-with-myself-but-not-with-other-87347/.
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"I'm competitive with myself, but not with other people. I set goals for myself. I don't really care about winning or losing as long as I do my best." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-competitive-with-myself-but-not-with-other-87347/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











