"I'm convinced that the place, if you have your druthers, to go to have that experience is New York City"
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The coyness of “that experience” does a lot of work. By refusing to name it, Coleman lets New York stand in for a whole bundle of sensations: density, ambition, anonymity, overstimulation, the daily audition of trying to matter in a crowd. The vagueness is strategic; it keeps the statement inclusive enough for a listener to project their own myth of New York onto it, while still sounding like insider talk. If you know, you know.
Contextually, this sits in a long entertainment-industry tradition of treating New York as the measuring stick of seriousness. For an actor of Coleman’s era, New York isn’t just a setting; it’s a credential. It’s where you go to be tested, where the audience is tougher, the pace less forgiving, the competition less polite. The subtext is less “New York is best” than “New York is real.” And coming from Coleman, a performer associated with sharp-edged authority figures and comic abrasion, it reads as both admiration and challenge: if you want the full-contact version of American life, you already know the address.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coleman, Dabney. (2026, January 17). I'm convinced that the place, if you have your druthers, to go to have that experience is New York City. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-convinced-that-the-place-if-you-have-your-57731/
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Coleman, Dabney. "I'm convinced that the place, if you have your druthers, to go to have that experience is New York City." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-convinced-that-the-place-if-you-have-your-57731/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm convinced that the place, if you have your druthers, to go to have that experience is New York City." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-convinced-that-the-place-if-you-have-your-57731/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




