"I'm happy being myself, which I've never been before. I always hid in other people, or tried to find myself through the characters, or live out their lives, but I didn't have those things in mine"
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The phrasing is doing careful work. “I’m happy being myself” is simple, almost childlike, but she immediately punctures it with “which I’ve never been before.” That’s the shock: not that she struggled, but that “myself” used to be unavailable to her. The line “tried to find myself through the characters” names a common modern impulse - outsourcing selfhood to narratives, aesthetics, relationships - then takes it to its logical extreme. Acting becomes a metaphor for coping.
The final clause, “but I didn’t have those things in mine,” is the bruise under the sentence. It hints at a life that didn’t feel stocked with meaning, stability, or agency, which tracks with Jolie’s public arc from early notoriety and self-destructive mythology to reinvention through humanitarian work, motherhood, and control over her own story. The intent isn’t self-pity; it’s reclamation. She’s asserting that authenticity isn’t a vibe you project. It’s a life you build when the old scripts stop working.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jolie, Angelina. (2026, January 15). I'm happy being myself, which I've never been before. I always hid in other people, or tried to find myself through the characters, or live out their lives, but I didn't have those things in mine. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-happy-being-myself-which-ive-never-been-before-28642/
Chicago Style
Jolie, Angelina. "I'm happy being myself, which I've never been before. I always hid in other people, or tried to find myself through the characters, or live out their lives, but I didn't have those things in mine." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-happy-being-myself-which-ive-never-been-before-28642/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm happy being myself, which I've never been before. I always hid in other people, or tried to find myself through the characters, or live out their lives, but I didn't have those things in mine." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-happy-being-myself-which-ive-never-been-before-28642/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






