"I'm just like everyone. I like to feel togetherness with someone"
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There’s a quiet defiance in Williams saying “I’m just like everyone” after decades of being treated as anything but: a cult icon, a critic’s darling, a rough-voiced poet of American ache. The line swerves away from myth-making and toward something almost stubbornly ordinary. It’s a move that fits her whole aesthetic: no sparkle, no distance, no glossy persona to hide behind. Just the human need underneath the grit.
“I like to feel togetherness with someone” is plain language, but it’s not simplistic. “Togetherness” isn’t romance-as-fireworks; it’s romance as relief. It carries the subtext of loneliness as a baseline condition, not a dramatic crisis. Williams doesn’t beg for love or sermonize about it. She frames connection as a bodily preference, like hunger or sleep. That choice makes it harder to dismiss, because it’s not performed. It’s admitted.
The cultural context matters: female musicians, especially in roots and rock traditions, are often boxed into archetypes (the siren, the confessor, the damaged genius). Williams counters that by refusing exceptionalism. She’s not claiming transcendence through art; she’s saying the art comes from the same craving everyone has, just documented more publicly.
The intent, then, is twofold: to puncture the romantic mythology audiences project onto artists, and to normalize need without apology. In a culture trained to treat independence as virtue and desire as weakness, she makes wanting closeness sound like what it is: sane.
“I like to feel togetherness with someone” is plain language, but it’s not simplistic. “Togetherness” isn’t romance-as-fireworks; it’s romance as relief. It carries the subtext of loneliness as a baseline condition, not a dramatic crisis. Williams doesn’t beg for love or sermonize about it. She frames connection as a bodily preference, like hunger or sleep. That choice makes it harder to dismiss, because it’s not performed. It’s admitted.
The cultural context matters: female musicians, especially in roots and rock traditions, are often boxed into archetypes (the siren, the confessor, the damaged genius). Williams counters that by refusing exceptionalism. She’s not claiming transcendence through art; she’s saying the art comes from the same craving everyone has, just documented more publicly.
The intent, then, is twofold: to puncture the romantic mythology audiences project onto artists, and to normalize need without apology. In a culture trained to treat independence as virtue and desire as weakness, she makes wanting closeness sound like what it is: sane.
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