"I'm married, which means that instead of occasionally wondering about men from afar, I actually live with one and can be constantly astounded by the strange male brain"
About this Quote
Guisewite’s phrasing does two clever things at once. First, it uses “the strange male brain” as a socially sanctioned shorthand for gender difference - a tidy, sitcom-ready premise that readers recognize instantly. Second, it smuggles in a gentler truth: cohabitation makes everyone’s internal logic look bizarre. Calling men strange is a wink, a way to talk about the bewilderment of partnership without sounding wounded or accusatory. “Constantly astounded” reads like affectionate exasperation: the tone of someone who’s still curious, just no longer surprised that curiosity is endless.
The context matters: Guisewite, as the creator of Cathy, built a career on the friction between women’s interior lives and the bland, sometimes baffling scripts of modern adulthood. This quote sits in that tradition - observational, self-aware, pitched at readers who’ve felt the jolt of discovering that love doesn’t eliminate difference; it just moves it into your kitchen. The intent isn’t to pathologize men so much as to make domestic intimacy legible, funny, and survivable.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Guisewite, Cathy. (2026, January 17). I'm married, which means that instead of occasionally wondering about men from afar, I actually live with one and can be constantly astounded by the strange male brain. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-married-which-means-that-instead-of-30449/
Chicago Style
Guisewite, Cathy. "I'm married, which means that instead of occasionally wondering about men from afar, I actually live with one and can be constantly astounded by the strange male brain." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-married-which-means-that-instead-of-30449/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm married, which means that instead of occasionally wondering about men from afar, I actually live with one and can be constantly astounded by the strange male brain." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-married-which-means-that-instead-of-30449/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.






