"I'm more selective now I've got a family. I don't want to work all the time. My daughter's 12; I don't want to miss out on her life. Soon she'll be a teenager; she won't want me around"
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The emotional engine is in the deadlines she names. Twelve isn’t just an age; it’s the last stretch of childhood where a parent still gets invited into the everyday. “I don’t want to miss out” frames parenting as an experience you can lose through neglect, not a status you hold by default. Then comes the sharpest turn: “Soon she’ll be a teenager; she won’t want me around.” It’s funny in a slightly bleak, honest way. She’s not romanticizing motherhood; she’s acknowledging the coming push-away phase and treating it as a reason to show up now, before the door half-closes.
As an actress, Walters also punctures the myth that creative work is only valid when it’s totalizing. Her subtext is a quiet critique of an industry that rewards constant availability and calls it “passion,” especially from women. There’s no guilt performance here, no martyrdom. Just a pragmatic calculus: roles will keep coming; a daughter’s childhood won’t. The quote works because it’s both intimate and structural, a personal choice that hints at the system forcing the choice in the first place.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Walters, Julie. (2026, January 16). I'm more selective now I've got a family. I don't want to work all the time. My daughter's 12; I don't want to miss out on her life. Soon she'll be a teenager; she won't want me around. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-more-selective-now-ive-got-a-family-i-dont-103729/
Chicago Style
Walters, Julie. "I'm more selective now I've got a family. I don't want to work all the time. My daughter's 12; I don't want to miss out on her life. Soon she'll be a teenager; she won't want me around." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-more-selective-now-ive-got-a-family-i-dont-103729/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm more selective now I've got a family. I don't want to work all the time. My daughter's 12; I don't want to miss out on her life. Soon she'll be a teenager; she won't want me around." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-more-selective-now-ive-got-a-family-i-dont-103729/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.








