"I'm not a bit changed - not really. I'm only just pruned down and branched out. The real me - back here - is just the same"
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Identity, Montgomery suggests, isn’t a dramatic makeover; it’s careful cultivation. The genius of “pruned down and branched out” is that it rejects the usual before-and-after narrative we impose on growing up, moving away, suffering, succeeding. Pruning is loss with purpose: the cutting away of excess, bad habits, or socially expensive quirks. Branching out is expansion: new roles, skills, communities. Put together, they describe development as a gardener’s logic rather than a marketer’s rebrand.
The subtext is defensive in a way that feels intimately familiar. “I’m not a bit changed - not really” reads like reassurance offered to someone who fears betrayal by time: a friend, a lover, a family member, even the self. Montgomery’s “The real me - back here -” locates authenticity in the interior, “back” suggesting both memory and a private core that can’t be fully revised by external expectations. It’s a quiet argument against the era’s pressure on women, especially educated women, to become palatable: to trade imagination for propriety, ambition for dutifulness.
As an educator and a novelist attuned to inner life, Montgomery understands how people evolve under constraint. Schools, churches, small-town scrutiny: all of them prune. Yet she refuses the tragedy script. The line insists on continuity without denying change, offering a model of selfhood that can adapt without capitulating. You can be shaped by experience and still claim yourself, not as a fossil, but as a living thing that keeps growing.
The subtext is defensive in a way that feels intimately familiar. “I’m not a bit changed - not really” reads like reassurance offered to someone who fears betrayal by time: a friend, a lover, a family member, even the self. Montgomery’s “The real me - back here -” locates authenticity in the interior, “back” suggesting both memory and a private core that can’t be fully revised by external expectations. It’s a quiet argument against the era’s pressure on women, especially educated women, to become palatable: to trade imagination for propriety, ambition for dutifulness.
As an educator and a novelist attuned to inner life, Montgomery understands how people evolve under constraint. Schools, churches, small-town scrutiny: all of them prune. Yet she refuses the tragedy script. The line insists on continuity without denying change, offering a model of selfhood that can adapt without capitulating. You can be shaped by experience and still claim yourself, not as a fossil, but as a living thing that keeps growing.
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