"I'm not a cheerleader. I'm not trying to pretend to be sweet and then come out and be bad. This is who I am"
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The second line does more subtle work. She’s rejecting the classic scandal arc the industry loves: the "good girl" who later "turns bad" for attention, headlines, or a rebrand. That storyline is profitable because it treats a woman’s sexuality as both bait and betrayal; the audience gets to feel shocked and righteous at the same time. By saying she’s not "trying to pretend", Ford challenges the moral bookkeeping behind pop fame, where authenticity gets measured as purity until it’s flipped into transgression.
"This is who I am" lands as both confession and armor. It’s not a plea to be understood so much as a preemptive boundary: don’t mistake my image for your fantasy, and don’t punish me when I don’t live up to it. In the era of TRL, tabloid scrutiny, and carefully choreographed innocence, the statement reads like a demand for consistency on her own terms - a small act of agency in a machine designed to script your innocence, then monetize your deviation from it.
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Ford, Willa. (2026, January 15). I'm not a cheerleader. I'm not trying to pretend to be sweet and then come out and be bad. This is who I am. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-a-cheerleader-im-not-trying-to-pretend-to-169774/
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Ford, Willa. "I'm not a cheerleader. I'm not trying to pretend to be sweet and then come out and be bad. This is who I am." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-a-cheerleader-im-not-trying-to-pretend-to-169774/.
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"I'm not a cheerleader. I'm not trying to pretend to be sweet and then come out and be bad. This is who I am." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-a-cheerleader-im-not-trying-to-pretend-to-169774/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



