"I'm not always the nicest person to meet, because I forget very easily that I'm an actress when I'm not working"
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The intent is practical and a little defiant. By framing niceness as something she has to remember, she implies it’s a performance - labor, not essence. That lands harder coming from Deneuve, whose screen persona often trades in composure, restraint, and an almost sculptural poise. The subtext: the public confuses craft with character, and she refuses to be held hostage by her own branding. If you meet her in a cafe and she’s brisk, she’s not “breaking character”; you’re the one casting her.
Context matters. Deneuve rose in a French star system that prizes privacy and artistic seriousness more than the American model of relentless accessibility. Her generation of European cinema icons was allowed - even expected - to be enigmatic, to keep the machinery of fame visible rather than pretending it’s effortless. The line also anticipates today’s conversation about emotional labor: the invisible tax paid by women in public, intensified when your face is an industry. She’s reminding us that the role ends when the scene does, and that “nice” can be a costume, not a moral obligation.
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Deneuve, Catherine. (2026, January 17). I'm not always the nicest person to meet, because I forget very easily that I'm an actress when I'm not working. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-always-the-nicest-person-to-meet-because-i-44841/
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Deneuve, Catherine. "I'm not always the nicest person to meet, because I forget very easily that I'm an actress when I'm not working." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-always-the-nicest-person-to-meet-because-i-44841/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm not always the nicest person to meet, because I forget very easily that I'm an actress when I'm not working." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-always-the-nicest-person-to-meet-because-i-44841/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.


