"I'm not ashamed of being gay, never have been and never will be. For that I have no apologies"
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The phrasing matters. “I’m not ashamed” is a direct rebuttal to the era’s default script, where gay people were expected to internalize disgrace and then perform penitence in public. The follow-up clauses, “never have been and never will be,” slam the door on the narrative of confession and redemption. He isn’t describing a journey from denial to acceptance; he’s rejecting the premise that there was ever something to “overcome.” Then comes the kicker: “For that I have no apologies.” That’s not bravado so much as a refusal to soothe other people’s discomfort.
Kirk’s context sharpens the edge. As a child star and young actor associated with Disney’s mid-century wholesome brand, he was shaped by an entertainment industry that treated queerness as reputational sabotage: leverage for gossip, a pretext for dismissal, a reason to disappear someone quietly. In that light, the quote reads like an anti-PR statement, the opposite of the carefully managed “no comment.” It’s a reclaiming of authorship. If the culture demanded shame as the admission price for visibility, Kirk’s answer is simple: keep your receipt.
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| Topic | Human Rights |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kirk, Tommy. (2026, January 16). I'm not ashamed of being gay, never have been and never will be. For that I have no apologies. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-ashamed-of-being-gay-never-have-been-and-135930/
Chicago Style
Kirk, Tommy. "I'm not ashamed of being gay, never have been and never will be. For that I have no apologies." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-ashamed-of-being-gay-never-have-been-and-135930/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm not ashamed of being gay, never have been and never will be. For that I have no apologies." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-ashamed-of-being-gay-never-have-been-and-135930/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






