"I'm not convinced about marriage. Divorce is so easy, and that fact that gay people are not allowed to marry takes much of the meaning out of it. Committing yourself to one person is sacred"
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Then she pivots to politics, and the line sharpens. Pointing to the exclusion of gay people isn’t a rhetorical flourish; it’s an accusation that the institution’s “meaning” is socially manufactured and selectively granted. Marriage, in that context, stops being a neutral container for love and becomes a gatekeeping device that confers legitimacy on some relationships while withholding it from others. If the state can deny it, the sanctity starts to look like branding.
The final sentence - “Committing yourself to one person is sacred” - is the emotional release valve. Portman salvages devotion from the rubble of the legal framework. She’s arguing that the sacred part is behavioral, not bureaucratic: showing up, choosing, enduring. Coming from a pop-culture figure, it also reads like a refusal to perform the traditional celebrity narrative (fairytale wedding, photogenic permanence). It’s a bid for moral seriousness without the costume jewelry of certainty.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Portman, Natalie. (2026, January 15). I'm not convinced about marriage. Divorce is so easy, and that fact that gay people are not allowed to marry takes much of the meaning out of it. Committing yourself to one person is sacred. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-convinced-about-marriage-divorce-is-so-155679/
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Portman, Natalie. "I'm not convinced about marriage. Divorce is so easy, and that fact that gay people are not allowed to marry takes much of the meaning out of it. Committing yourself to one person is sacred." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-convinced-about-marriage-divorce-is-so-155679/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm not convinced about marriage. Divorce is so easy, and that fact that gay people are not allowed to marry takes much of the meaning out of it. Committing yourself to one person is sacred." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-convinced-about-marriage-divorce-is-so-155679/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



