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Happiness Quote by Katy Perry

"I'm not defined by where I came from. I never took part in the rules and hatred that sometimes go along with religion. But if my parents are happy with what they believe, then I'm happy to stay out of their way. We agree to disagree"

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There’s a very 2010s kind of diplomacy in Katy Perry’s phrasing: personal freedom framed not as a revolution, but as good manners. “I’m not defined by where I came from” is the pop-star origin story in miniature, a clean break from a childhood narrative that audiences love to treat as destiny. But she doesn’t go full scorched-earth. Instead, she draws a boundary and then cushions it.

The key move is how she separates “religion” from “rules and hatred.” That’s not an abstract critique; it’s a strategic disentangling that lets her reject the parts that hurt without publicly humiliating her family. She’s signaling: I’ve seen how belief can curdle into control, and I’m refusing that contract. Yet she also refuses the role of the angry apostate, the celebrity who performs emancipation by burning bridges on Instagram Live.

“If my parents are happy... I’m happy to stay out of their way” reads like generosity, but it’s also self-protection. It sets the terms of engagement: no debates, no conversion attempts, no emotional hostage-taking. “We agree to disagree” is a familiar cliche, but here it functions as a ceasefire clause, the kind that keeps a relationship intact when values diverge.

Context matters: Perry’s public persona thrives on exuberance and provocation, but this is restraint. It’s the softer power of refusing to be drafted into someone else’s culture war, even when the audience is hungry for a villain.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Perry, Katy. (2026, January 17). I'm not defined by where I came from. I never took part in the rules and hatred that sometimes go along with religion. But if my parents are happy with what they believe, then I'm happy to stay out of their way. We agree to disagree. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-defined-by-where-i-came-from-i-never-took-75457/

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Perry, Katy. "I'm not defined by where I came from. I never took part in the rules and hatred that sometimes go along with religion. But if my parents are happy with what they believe, then I'm happy to stay out of their way. We agree to disagree." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-defined-by-where-i-came-from-i-never-took-75457/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm not defined by where I came from. I never took part in the rules and hatred that sometimes go along with religion. But if my parents are happy with what they believe, then I'm happy to stay out of their way. We agree to disagree." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-defined-by-where-i-came-from-i-never-took-75457/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.

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