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Daily Inspiration Quote by Vanessa Marcil

"I'm not ready to be a woman yet, I'd like it if my body were more boyish. Maybe I'll like my curves when I'm older but right now they kind of make me squirm"

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There is a particular kind of honesty that only shows up when someone stops trying to sound empowered and admits theyre simply uncomfortable in their own skin. Marcil frames femininity not as a prize to be claimed but as a timeline being imposed: "not ready" turns womanhood into an appointment shes being rushed toward, not an identity shes freely choosing. The wish for a "more boyish" body isnt really nostalgia for childhood; its a craving for neutrality, for a shape that draws less attention and demands less performance.

The line that does the most work is "kind of make me squirm". Its bodily language for a bodily problem. Squirming suggests being watched, evaluated, sexualized - even if no one is in the room. Curves arent just curves; theyre a social signal that changes how people look at you, talk to you, and touch the edges of your space. That discomfort reads less like vanity than a young persons alarm at realizing her body has become public property.

Coming from an actress, the subtext sharpens. Hollywood sells women on the idea that curves are currency, then punishes them for spending it wrong: too much, too soon, too visibly. Marlcil isnt rejecting femininity; shes naming the whiplash of being told your body is your brand while youre still figuring out who you are. The quote lands because it captures a transitional panic thats rarely allowed to be messy: the moment when attention arrives before agency does.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Marcil, Vanessa. (2026, January 16). I'm not ready to be a woman yet, I'd like it if my body were more boyish. Maybe I'll like my curves when I'm older but right now they kind of make me squirm. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-ready-to-be-a-woman-yet-id-like-it-if-my-131508/

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Marcil, Vanessa. "I'm not ready to be a woman yet, I'd like it if my body were more boyish. Maybe I'll like my curves when I'm older but right now they kind of make me squirm." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-ready-to-be-a-woman-yet-id-like-it-if-my-131508/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm not ready to be a woman yet, I'd like it if my body were more boyish. Maybe I'll like my curves when I'm older but right now they kind of make me squirm." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-ready-to-be-a-woman-yet-id-like-it-if-my-131508/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Vanessa Marcil (born October 15, 1969) is a Actress from USA.

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