"I'm not resigning, and I'm going to try very hard to go back to work, a better man and a better husband, too"
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Then comes the sleight of hand: “I’m going to try very hard.” The phrasing is almost childlike in its appeal to effort over outcome, as if moral repair can be graded on hustle. It’s a politician’s familiar grammar of aspiration, repurposed as contrition. He can’t credibly promise purity, so he promises work. “Go back to work” is doing double duty: returning to public service, yes, but also reclaiming the identity that scandal threatens to erase. It’s an attempt to make governance the moral alibi.
The pivot to “a better man and a better husband too” is strategic intimacy. By foregrounding the private role, Weiner tries to reframe the injury as domestic, not civic, nudging voters toward a forgiveness model they understand from marriage rather than from ethics rules. The “too” is the tell: husbandhood is appended, not centered, as if the marriage is a secondary constituency. In the context of Weiner’s sexting scandal and the media frenzy around it, the quote performs accountability while keeping power, offering penitence without surrender.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Weiner, Anthony. (2026, February 18). I'm not resigning, and I'm going to try very hard to go back to work, a better man and a better husband, too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-resigning-and-im-going-to-try-very-hard-to-61953/
Chicago Style
Weiner, Anthony. "I'm not resigning, and I'm going to try very hard to go back to work, a better man and a better husband, too." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-resigning-and-im-going-to-try-very-hard-to-61953/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm not resigning, and I'm going to try very hard to go back to work, a better man and a better husband, too." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-resigning-and-im-going-to-try-very-hard-to-61953/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.




