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Motherhood Quote by Jerry Doyle

"I'm not sure what I want to do when I grow up, or if I'm sure I ever want to grow up. I'm sure there are people that wish I would, but you know, my mom will get over it"

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Doyle’s line plays like a shrug with teeth: a grown man tossing the whole idea of “growing up” back at the culture that keeps demanding it. The joke is in the double move. He admits uncertainty about his future, then ups the ante by questioning the premise that adulthood is a destination at all. It’s not Peter Pan whimsy; it’s a working actor’s deflection, the kind of humor that keeps you from sounding defensive while still refusing the terms of the critique.

The intent is to normalize drift in a profession built on instability. Acting careers rarely follow a clean ladder, so “I’m not sure” isn’t a confession as much as a professional reality. By framing it as a choice - “if I’m sure I ever want to grow up” - he converts vulnerability into agency. That’s the subtext: I’m not failing at adulthood, I’m opting out of your script.

The “people that wish I would” line widens the frame to the chorus of expectations: fans, peers, maybe the industry itself, always ready to treat playfulness as immaturity and nontraditional paths as irresponsibility. Then he lands it with the mom tag. It’s a soft punchline that does real work, acknowledging family pressure without granting it authority. “My mom will get over it” signals affection and independence at once: yes, I hear the judgment; no, it doesn’t run my life.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Doyle, Jerry. (2026, January 16). I'm not sure what I want to do when I grow up, or if I'm sure I ever want to grow up. I'm sure there are people that wish I would, but you know, my mom will get over it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-sure-what-i-want-to-do-when-i-grow-up-or-133489/

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Doyle, Jerry. "I'm not sure what I want to do when I grow up, or if I'm sure I ever want to grow up. I'm sure there are people that wish I would, but you know, my mom will get over it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-sure-what-i-want-to-do-when-i-grow-up-or-133489/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm not sure what I want to do when I grow up, or if I'm sure I ever want to grow up. I'm sure there are people that wish I would, but you know, my mom will get over it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-sure-what-i-want-to-do-when-i-grow-up-or-133489/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Jerry Doyle (born July 16, 1956) is a Actor from USA.

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