"I'm not that fashion-conscious. A lot of times, when women are appearing to be so perfect, it's because they're a mess underneath"
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The second sentence does the real work. “A lot of times” gives her an escape hatch from sounding absolute, but the implication is still sharp: perfection often reads as armor. The subtext isn’t that stylish women are fake; it’s that the performance of being “so perfect” can be a coping mechanism, a way to keep chaos private while meeting the world’s expectations. Calling it “a mess underneath” reframes glamour as a symptom, not a solution.
There’s also a quiet critique of how observers interpret women’s appearances. We’re encouraged to see a curated exterior as proof of a curated life, then resent it. Tilly flips that reflex: the more seamless the surface, the more likely it’s hiding stress, insecurity, grief, or exhaustion. Coming from someone whose job is literally to make art out of surface and illusion, it reads like insider candor - and a small act of solidarity. Not “stop dressing up,” but “don’t confuse the mask for the person.”
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Tilly, Meg. (2026, January 16). I'm not that fashion-conscious. A lot of times, when women are appearing to be so perfect, it's because they're a mess underneath. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-that-fashion-conscious-a-lot-of-times-when-113073/
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Tilly, Meg. "I'm not that fashion-conscious. A lot of times, when women are appearing to be so perfect, it's because they're a mess underneath." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-that-fashion-conscious-a-lot-of-times-when-113073/.
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"I'm not that fashion-conscious. A lot of times, when women are appearing to be so perfect, it's because they're a mess underneath." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-not-that-fashion-conscious-a-lot-of-times-when-113073/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





