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Daily Inspiration Quote by Dana Plato

"I'm open-minded. I don't consider myself gay or hetero, I just am. I've had experiences all over the planet but it always comes down to just me, but I think at this point if I had an ongoing relationship I believe it would be with a man"

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There is a plainspoken radicalism in the way Dana Plato sidesteps the neat identity boxes and lands on something messier: "I just am". Coming from an actress whose fame arrived early and whose private life was relentlessly public, that phrasing reads less like a slogan and more like self-protection. Labels can be empowering, but for someone constantly narrated by tabloids and talk shows, refusing the label can also be a way to take the microphone back.

The quote’s real engine is its tension between freedom and gravity. She starts with "open-minded", then immediately undercuts the performative vibe of that term by rejecting both "gay" and "hetero". The subtext isn’t indecision; it’s fatigue with other people’s categories. "Experiences all over the planet" gestures at a life lived on the road, in adult spaces, possibly in search of something stable. Then she snaps the camera inward: "it always comes down to just me". That line makes the sexuality discussion feel like a proxy for a larger claim: I am not your storyline.

The final turn - "at this point... it would be with a man" - adds an almost reluctant specificity. She’s not presenting a manifesto; she’s narrating a moment in progress, a snapshot of desire shaped by time, vulnerability, and what she can imagine surviving. In the late 1990s, when celebrity queerness was treated as confession or scandal, Plato’s calm ambiguity is quietly defiant: intimate life as lived experience, not courtroom testimony.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Plato, Dana. (n.d.). I'm open-minded. I don't consider myself gay or hetero, I just am. I've had experiences all over the planet but it always comes down to just me, but I think at this point if I had an ongoing relationship I believe it would be with a man. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-open-minded-i-dont-consider-myself-gay-or-120256/

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Plato, Dana. "I'm open-minded. I don't consider myself gay or hetero, I just am. I've had experiences all over the planet but it always comes down to just me, but I think at this point if I had an ongoing relationship I believe it would be with a man." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-open-minded-i-dont-consider-myself-gay-or-120256/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm open-minded. I don't consider myself gay or hetero, I just am. I've had experiences all over the planet but it always comes down to just me, but I think at this point if I had an ongoing relationship I believe it would be with a man." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-open-minded-i-dont-consider-myself-gay-or-120256/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Dana Plato

Dana Plato (November 7, 1964 - May 8, 1999) was a Actress from USA.

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