"I'm pretty hard on myself in general"
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The phrasing matters. “Pretty” softens the admission just enough to keep it likable; “in general” makes it a personality trait, not a crisis. That’s the celebrity interview sweet spot: vulnerable without being messy, relatable without surrendering mystique. For actors, especially ones positioned as “serious” and intelligent, self-hardness becomes a credential. It suggests craft, discipline, and an internal compass that’s supposedly immune to hype.
The subtext is gendered in a way that’s hard to miss. Women in Hollywood are trained to perform gratitude and self-doubt as proof they’re not arrogant, even when they’re objectively excellent. Portman’s statement echoes that script while also hinting at the cost: perfectionism as a survival strategy in a system where one bad performance, one aging face, one “difficult” rumor can rewrite the narrative. It’s not just self-criticism; it’s preemptive defense, spoken politely.
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"I'm pretty hard on myself in general." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-pretty-hard-on-myself-in-general-115488/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






