"I'm pretty Sicilian if I've been crossed. I don't seek revenge, but I never forget. And I make it hard to repair, which is not a great quality because if people held me to that standard, no one would be around me - ever"
About this Quote
The most revealing phrase is “I make it hard to repair.” That’s not anger; it’s control. Repair requires vulnerability, and she’s admitting she withholds it as a punishment, turning reconciliation into a test people will likely fail. For an actress whose brand is warmth and emotional transparency on screen, the subtext is almost transactional: intimacy has a cost, and betrayal raises the price.
Then comes the self-indictment: “not a great quality… no one would be around me - ever.” She widens the lens from personal grievance to mutual human flaw, quietly swapping moral superiority for complicity. It’s a backstage acknowledgment of how relationships actually run: on grace, selective amnesia, and the willingness to let people back in before they’ve earned it. In celebrity culture, where slights are amplified and boundaries are survival, her candor reads less like confession than like a survival tactic said out loud.
Quote Details
| Topic | Betrayal |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Adams, Amy. (2026, January 15). I'm pretty Sicilian if I've been crossed. I don't seek revenge, but I never forget. And I make it hard to repair, which is not a great quality because if people held me to that standard, no one would be around me - ever. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-pretty-sicilian-if-ive-been-crossed-i-dont-35917/
Chicago Style
Adams, Amy. "I'm pretty Sicilian if I've been crossed. I don't seek revenge, but I never forget. And I make it hard to repair, which is not a great quality because if people held me to that standard, no one would be around me - ever." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-pretty-sicilian-if-ive-been-crossed-i-dont-35917/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm pretty Sicilian if I've been crossed. I don't seek revenge, but I never forget. And I make it hard to repair, which is not a great quality because if people held me to that standard, no one would be around me - ever." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-pretty-sicilian-if-ive-been-crossed-i-dont-35917/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


