"I'm pretty social so it's hard for me to find solitude, but I need to have solitude to write"
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The subtext is a quiet boundary argument. Saying it’s “hard…to find solitude” shifts the obstacle from internal discipline to external reality: the social calendar, the invitations, the pull of community. Then the second clause flips into necessity: “but I need” makes it non-negotiable, a claim to space that can sound selfish in a culture that rewards constant availability. For musicians especially, the irony is sharp: their job is public connection, yet the raw material for that connection is made in private. Curtis compresses that entire contradiction into one sentence.
Contextually, it also reads like a comment on the modern attention economy before anyone needs to name it. Being “pretty social” can mean in-person life, but it also gestures at the endless small pings that mimic sociality and erode deep work. Curtis is effectively describing the hidden labor of songwriting: the hours of quiet that audiences never see, but absolutely hear.
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| Topic | Writing |
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Curtis, Catie. (2026, January 15). I'm pretty social so it's hard for me to find solitude, but I need to have solitude to write. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-pretty-social-so-its-hard-for-me-to-find-141420/
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Curtis, Catie. "I'm pretty social so it's hard for me to find solitude, but I need to have solitude to write." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-pretty-social-so-its-hard-for-me-to-find-141420/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm pretty social so it's hard for me to find solitude, but I need to have solitude to write." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-pretty-social-so-its-hard-for-me-to-find-141420/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.












