"I'm probably not going to get married unless I live with somebody for 10 or 20 years. But these people (Romeo and Juliet) took a chance and they did it. We don't have the balls that Romeo did"
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The specific intent isn’t to praise teen marriage as a life hack; it’s to frame romance as a disappearing appetite for stakes. “Live with somebody for 10 or 20 years” reads like a contract drafted by anxiety. It’s commitment by probation period, intimacy with an escape hatch. Against that, Romeo becomes a cartoon of decisive masculinity: not wise, not admirable in any practical sense, but undeniably all-in. DiCaprio’s point is less “be Romeo” than “notice what we’ve trained ourselves to avoid.”
Subtext: the actor who played the icon of youthful passion is acknowledging the gap between the fantasy he sells onscreen and the caution he lives offscreen. It’s also a small generational snapshot - a culture increasingly fluent in therapy language and long-term cohabitation, yet suspicious of formal vows. By calling it a lack of “balls,” he makes the critique feel personal rather than sociological, turning a broad shift in relationship norms into an intimate admission of fear.
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DiCaprio, Leonardo. (2026, January 18). I'm probably not going to get married unless I live with somebody for 10 or 20 years. But these people (Romeo and Juliet) took a chance and they did it. We don't have the balls that Romeo did. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-probably-not-going-to-get-married-unless-i-22772/
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DiCaprio, Leonardo. "I'm probably not going to get married unless I live with somebody for 10 or 20 years. But these people (Romeo and Juliet) took a chance and they did it. We don't have the balls that Romeo did." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-probably-not-going-to-get-married-unless-i-22772/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm probably not going to get married unless I live with somebody for 10 or 20 years. But these people (Romeo and Juliet) took a chance and they did it. We don't have the balls that Romeo did." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-probably-not-going-to-get-married-unless-i-22772/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






