"I'm proof against that word failure. I've seen behind it. The only failure a man ought to fear is failure of cleaving to the purpose he sees to be best"
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Eliot’s pivot is moral, not motivational: the only failure worth fearing is “failure of cleaving to the purpose he sees to be best.” That phrase makes integrity tactile. “Cleaving” is stubborn, almost physical fidelity, the opposite of drifting with fashion or panic. It also puts the burden on perception: “he sees to be best” admits that purpose is chosen under uncertainty, not guaranteed by applause or results. She’s not sanctifying stubbornness for its own sake; she’s arguing that a life should be judged by its devotion to an examined good, not by public scorekeeping.
In Eliot’s context-a woman writing under a male pen name, criticized for her unconventional partnership and for the seriousness of her art-this reads like self-defense sharpened into philosophy. She’s relocating the argument from reputation to conscience, from career outcomes to ethical continuity. The subtext is bracing: you can lose status, money, even love, and still not be “a failure” if you didn’t betray what you believed was right.
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| Topic | Perseverance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Eliot, George. (2026, January 17). I'm proof against that word failure. I've seen behind it. The only failure a man ought to fear is failure of cleaving to the purpose he sees to be best. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-proof-against-that-word-failure-ive-seen-28231/
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Eliot, George. "I'm proof against that word failure. I've seen behind it. The only failure a man ought to fear is failure of cleaving to the purpose he sees to be best." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-proof-against-that-word-failure-ive-seen-28231/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm proof against that word failure. I've seen behind it. The only failure a man ought to fear is failure of cleaving to the purpose he sees to be best." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-proof-against-that-word-failure-ive-seen-28231/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










