"I'm sorry if the following sounds combative and excessively personal, but that's my general style"
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The intent is tactical. By saying “I’m sorry” up front, Jackson borrows the politeness we expect in professional discourse, but immediately undercuts it with “that’s my general style,” which reads less like remorse and more like a standing policy. The subtext: don’t be shocked when I come at your claims hard, and don’t mistake my intensity for malice. It’s an attempt to control how the audience interprets what follows, a kind of rhetorical immunization against charges of incivility.
Context matters: in lab meetings, review panels, email threads, and conference Q&As, status and credibility are constantly being negotiated. A scientist signaling “combative and excessively personal” can be owning a reputation, or quietly asserting dominance - framing any discomfort as the listener’s problem, not the speaker’s. The phrase “sounds” is doing work too; it suggests the roughness may be in your perception, not necessarily in his content. It’s both self-awareness and a preemptive alibi, which is why it lands with a sting of honesty.
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Jackson, Ian. (2026, January 16). I'm sorry if the following sounds combative and excessively personal, but that's my general style. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-sorry-if-the-following-sounds-combative-and-122391/
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Jackson, Ian. "I'm sorry if the following sounds combative and excessively personal, but that's my general style." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-sorry-if-the-following-sounds-combative-and-122391/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm sorry if the following sounds combative and excessively personal, but that's my general style." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-sorry-if-the-following-sounds-combative-and-122391/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.



