"I'm starting to judge success by the time I have for myself, the time I spend with family and friends. My priorities aren't amending; they're shifting"
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The line “My priorities aren’t amending; they’re shifting” does a lot of careful emotional work. “Amending” implies a moral correction, an apology tour, the familiar public narrative that someone “lost their way” and is now returning to the proper path. Fraser refuses that script. He’s not confessing to ambition as a sin; he’s describing a change in gravity. Priorities don’t get fixed because they weren’t broken. They move because life moves.
The subtext carries extra charge given Fraser’s highly public career arc: early-2000s stardom, a long stretch of professional quiet, and a recent, widely celebrated comeback. His comment reads like a boundary drawn after learning what fame can cost in privacy, health, and relationships. It also taps into a broader post-burnout culture where people have started treating time as the real luxury good, and “work-life balance” as a refusal to be endlessly available.
What makes it work is its calmness. No manifesto, no bitterness, just a redefinition that sounds like relief.
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| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fraser, Brendan. (2026, January 17). I'm starting to judge success by the time I have for myself, the time I spend with family and friends. My priorities aren't amending; they're shifting. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-starting-to-judge-success-by-the-time-i-have-42284/
Chicago Style
Fraser, Brendan. "I'm starting to judge success by the time I have for myself, the time I spend with family and friends. My priorities aren't amending; they're shifting." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-starting-to-judge-success-by-the-time-i-have-42284/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm starting to judge success by the time I have for myself, the time I spend with family and friends. My priorities aren't amending; they're shifting." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-starting-to-judge-success-by-the-time-i-have-42284/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









