"I'm still more comfortable with standards than with my own songs"
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There’s a quiet sting of honesty in Carly Simon admitting she’s “still more comfortable with standards than with my own songs.” For a songwriter whose catalog helped define the confessional pop era, the line undercuts the myth that self-expression automatically feels natural once you’ve made it your brand. Standards are the musical equivalent of well-worn jeans: the audience already knows the silhouette, the emotional stakes are pre-approved, and the performer gets to inhabit a role without having to defend its existence.
The subtext is about exposure and control. With a standard, Simon can be interpretive rather than autobiographical. She can emphasize phrasing, tone, and restraint, letting a century of cultural memory do some of the heavy lifting. With her own songs, the listener doesn’t just hear a melody; they hear her. Even when the lyrics are artfully oblique, the public treats the material like evidence in a lifelong case file: who is this about, what does it reveal, how should we judge her?
Context matters: Simon emerged in a moment when singer-songwriters were sold as authentic, diaristic, and emotionally legible. That bargain creates a trap. You get celebrated for your “truth,” then you spend decades negotiating how much of yourself you want strangers to own. Her comfort with standards isn’t a retreat from artistry; it’s a reclamation of distance - a reminder that the safest mask can be a classic.
The subtext is about exposure and control. With a standard, Simon can be interpretive rather than autobiographical. She can emphasize phrasing, tone, and restraint, letting a century of cultural memory do some of the heavy lifting. With her own songs, the listener doesn’t just hear a melody; they hear her. Even when the lyrics are artfully oblique, the public treats the material like evidence in a lifelong case file: who is this about, what does it reveal, how should we judge her?
Context matters: Simon emerged in a moment when singer-songwriters were sold as authentic, diaristic, and emotionally legible. That bargain creates a trap. You get celebrated for your “truth,” then you spend decades negotiating how much of yourself you want strangers to own. Her comfort with standards isn’t a retreat from artistry; it’s a reclamation of distance - a reminder that the safest mask can be a classic.
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