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Marriage Quote by Mike Krzyzewski

"I'm still not a great reader, but my wife is and my daughters are, and I envy them. I think I got into a bad habit of trying to do something all the time, instead of trying to sit down and take my time a little bit"

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There’s a quietly radical humility in hearing an all-time control freak - and yes, elite coaching rewards control - admit envy of people who can sit still with a book. Krzyzewski isn’t selling anti-intellectual machismo; he’s confessing that his superpower (relentless doing) has a cost. The line “I got into a bad habit” reframes hustle as something less like virtue and more like compulsion. For a coach whose brand is discipline, “habit” lands like a diagnosis.

The domestic framing matters. He doesn’t invoke players, rivals, or rings; he points to his wife and daughters. That’s not sentimental window dressing. It’s a subtle admission that the most meaningful standards in his life aren’t set by press conferences or locker rooms but by the people watching him off-court, living at a different pace. Envy becomes a kind of moral metric: they can practice attention without needing it to produce an outcome.

In context, this reads like a late-career reckoning from a man who spent decades optimizing time into possessions, drills, and film sessions. Coaching at Krzyzewski’s level trains you to treat every minute as a lever. Reading, by contrast, is surrender: you let the author set the tempo, you risk unproductive immersion, you sit with ambiguity. His intent isn’t to glamorize books; it’s to name the cultural trap of constant motion and to hint that leadership isn’t only about intensity. Sometimes it’s about learning to stop performing usefulness.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Krzyzewski, Mike. (n.d.). I'm still not a great reader, but my wife is and my daughters are, and I envy them. I think I got into a bad habit of trying to do something all the time, instead of trying to sit down and take my time a little bit. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-still-not-a-great-reader-but-my-wife-is-and-my-27434/

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Krzyzewski, Mike. "I'm still not a great reader, but my wife is and my daughters are, and I envy them. I think I got into a bad habit of trying to do something all the time, instead of trying to sit down and take my time a little bit." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-still-not-a-great-reader-but-my-wife-is-and-my-27434/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm still not a great reader, but my wife is and my daughters are, and I envy them. I think I got into a bad habit of trying to do something all the time, instead of trying to sit down and take my time a little bit." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-still-not-a-great-reader-but-my-wife-is-and-my-27434/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Mike Krzyzewski (born February 13, 1947) is a Coach from USA.

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