"I'm still very close friends with his first wife, Neile, who is now remarried"
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The specificity matters. Naming “Neile” (not just “his first wife”) signals intimacy and respect, a refusal to treat her as an accessory to someone else’s career. Then comes the deft little add-on: “who is now remarried.” It’s not gossip; it’s a moral alibi. Vaughn preempts the insinuation that this friendship is nostalgic, flirtatious, or a proxy war against the ex-husband. Remarriage becomes shorthand for closure, stability, and adult boundaries.
In actor-speak, it’s also a reveal about the world they moved through: long-running friendships, overlapping circles, and the way personal histories keep showing up at premieres and dinner parties. Vaughn’s intent reads as protective, even chivalrous in a modern way: he’s guarding Neile’s dignity while signaling that divorces don’t have to produce scorched earth. The subtext is a gentle rebuke to our appetite for messy endings. Some people exit the marriage and remain in the community, and that, he suggests, is the more interesting story.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vaughn, Robert. (2026, January 15). I'm still very close friends with his first wife, Neile, who is now remarried. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-still-very-close-friends-with-his-first-wife-153220/
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Vaughn, Robert. "I'm still very close friends with his first wife, Neile, who is now remarried." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-still-very-close-friends-with-his-first-wife-153220/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm still very close friends with his first wife, Neile, who is now remarried." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-still-very-close-friends-with-his-first-wife-153220/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







