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Creativity Quote by Frank Sinatra

"I'm supposed to have a Ph.D. on the subject of women. But the truth is I've flunked more often than not. I'm very fond of women; I admire them. But, like all men, I don't understand them"

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Sinatra wraps an old gender cliche in a tuxedo and lets it croon. The joke lands because it pretends to be a confession of humility while quietly re-centering the male point of view: women become a "subject" he’s meant to master, a course he keeps failing, a mystery that refuses to resolve into a clean answer. That schoolroom metaphor is doing heavy lifting. A Ph.D. implies expertise, authority, the right to speak. "Flunked" flips the power dynamic just enough to make him lovable again, the wounded charmer admitting defeat without giving up the premise that there was ever a test to pass.

The subtext is classic Sinatra-era masculinity: candid, self-mythologizing, a little self-deprecating, and safely insulated from real accountability. "I'm very fond of women; I admire them" acts like a preemptive alibi, a velvet rope against criticism. It says: I can't be sexist; I’m sentimental. Then comes the punchline: "like all men, I don't understand them". The phrase turns individual failure into a fraternity handshake, inviting men to nod along and women to play the patient enigma.

Context matters. Sinatra’s public image was built on romantic bravado, tabloid relationships, and a stage persona that sold intimacy as performance. This line keeps that brand intact: he’s the confident crooner who can own his flaws, but only in a way that keeps women as the unknowable "other" and men as the default narrators of love’s confusion.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sinatra, Frank. (2026, January 17). I'm supposed to have a Ph.D. on the subject of women. But the truth is I've flunked more often than not. I'm very fond of women; I admire them. But, like all men, I don't understand them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-supposed-to-have-a-phd-on-the-subject-of-women-31202/

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Sinatra, Frank. "I'm supposed to have a Ph.D. on the subject of women. But the truth is I've flunked more often than not. I'm very fond of women; I admire them. But, like all men, I don't understand them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-supposed-to-have-a-phd-on-the-subject-of-women-31202/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm supposed to have a Ph.D. on the subject of women. But the truth is I've flunked more often than not. I'm very fond of women; I admire them. But, like all men, I don't understand them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-supposed-to-have-a-phd-on-the-subject-of-women-31202/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Frank Sinatra (December 12, 1915 - May 14, 1998) was a Musician from USA.

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