"I'm the most gregarious of men and love good company, but never less alone when alone"
About this Quote
The subtext is a critique of "company" as a kind of noise. For an actor, company often means being watched, assessed, consumed - even when it's affectionate. You're surrounded and still unseen. O'Toole's phrasing suggests that loneliness isn't the absence of people; it's the absence of intimacy, or the fatigue of maintaining the self everyone expects. Alone, he doesn't have to be legible. He can stop auditioning.
Context matters: O'Toole's image was built on high-wattage performance both onstage and off, with a reputation for hard living that the culture tended to romanticize. This line punctures that romance without sounding self-pitying. It's defensive and self-aware: a man famous for filling rooms admitting that the fullest room can still feel like an empty one, while the empty room can finally feel inhabited.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
O'Toole, Peter. (2026, January 16). I'm the most gregarious of men and love good company, but never less alone when alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-the-most-gregarious-of-men-and-love-good-120643/
Chicago Style
O'Toole, Peter. "I'm the most gregarious of men and love good company, but never less alone when alone." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-the-most-gregarious-of-men-and-love-good-120643/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm the most gregarious of men and love good company, but never less alone when alone." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-the-most-gregarious-of-men-and-love-good-120643/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.






