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Creativity Quote by Angie Stone

"I'm the type of woman you might say is too good. I'll massage a man's feet, have dinner cooked when he gets home. But once they leave, the door is closed, and the locks are changed"

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There is a trapdoor in that first sentence: "too good" sounds like praise, but Angie Stone uses it as bait to expose a familiar script. The opening inventory of care - massaged feet, dinner ready - reads like a highlight reel of traditional girlfriend-and-wife labor, the kind that gets applauded right up until it gets taken for granted. She leans into the stereotype on purpose, not to endorse it, but to show how easily "good" becomes "available."

Then she snaps the frame shut. "But once they leave" is the moment the fantasy breaks: the caretaking isn’t a lifelong contract, it’s a choice with an expiration date. The door-closing and lock-changing aren’t just breakup theatrics; they’re a boundary delivered in blunt, physical imagery. You can feel the finality. No backsliding, no late-night "you up?" text, no nostalgia reruns. In a culture that often expects women to be endlessly accommodating and endlessly forgiving, she makes permanence out of a decision.

The subtext is about self-respect after being underestimated: I can be soft without being porous. Stone’s context matters here - as a soul and R&B artist whose era traded in narratives of devotion, heartbreak, and reconciliation, she’s rewriting the genre’s usual arc. The power move isn’t leaving; it’s refusing to leave a door cracked open for someone who treated her care like a renewable resource.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stone, Angie. (2026, January 17). I'm the type of woman you might say is too good. I'll massage a man's feet, have dinner cooked when he gets home. But once they leave, the door is closed, and the locks are changed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-the-type-of-woman-you-might-say-is-too-good-38424/

Chicago Style
Stone, Angie. "I'm the type of woman you might say is too good. I'll massage a man's feet, have dinner cooked when he gets home. But once they leave, the door is closed, and the locks are changed." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-the-type-of-woman-you-might-say-is-too-good-38424/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm the type of woman you might say is too good. I'll massage a man's feet, have dinner cooked when he gets home. But once they leave, the door is closed, and the locks are changed." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-the-type-of-woman-you-might-say-is-too-good-38424/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Angie Stone (born December 18, 1961) is a Musician from USA.

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